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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.0.0 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Thu, 28 Aug 2008 15:23:10 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>sf articles + advice!</title><link>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/</link><description></description><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.0.0 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>Lee Silber: Moving Beyond Fear by Lain Chroust Ehmann</title><dc:creator>Tine</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 15:47:54 +0000</pubDate><link>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/2007/6/16/lee-silber-moving-beyond-fear-by-lain-chroust-ehmann.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">14674:390221:1104532</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-left"><img src="http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/storage/Lee_Mug.gif" alt="Lee_Mug.gif" /></span>Many artists have a dream that not only will they someday become rich and famous from their art; they’ll also reach a point where they no longer have to deal with fear. Unfortunately, says entrepreneur, author and creativity guru Lee Silber, fear never really disappears. Silber, author of six books, including “Organizing from the Right Side of the Brain” and “Career Management for the Creative Person,” does have some good news: You can move beyond fear and learn to lessen its effects on your life. In an exclusive interview with <em>Studio Friday</em>, Silber offers these tips:<br /><br /><strong>Accept that everyone feels fear.</strong> Whether you’re a full-time professional photographer or a closet collage artist, you are going to face fear of one sort or another, says Silber. Don’t think that one day you will move beyond fear; the types of fear you face may change, but it will still be there. “Although it helps to say, ‘I’ve done this,’ it can be harder,” he says. Suddenly, you’ve got a reputation to protect, an audience to please, a career to promote – and those things bring a whole new set of challenges with them. <br /></p><p><strong>Recognize that most fear for newer artists comes from fear of being judged.</strong> This is why so many artists have trouble with procrastination, Silber explains. “Once it’s finished, it will be judged,” he says. As a result, if you can just keep your painting or jewelry to yourself, incomplete, it will never have face all those possibly disapproving faces. <br /></p><p><strong>Figure out why you create.</strong> What drives your art? Do you have something to say? Do you want recognition? Do you do it for the money? Most artists start because they can’t help it – there’s something in them that must come out, whether or not the finished project ever see the light of day. The benefits they receive from publication, sales, etc., is just icing on the cake. If you are creating first and foremost for you, keep that in mind, suggests Silber.<br /></p><p><strong>Focus on the process.</strong> Take the pressure off your creative process, Silber urges. If every time you sit down to draw you tell yourself that this has to be sales-worthy, you’re putting undue stress on yourself. “The answer is to not focus on the outcome, but to focus on the process,” says Silber. Tell yourself, “I’m doing this for me.” Don’t expect anything commercial from your creations at all while you’re creating. Focus on the fun and joy the process brings you.<br /></p><p><strong>Let the muse guide you.</strong> While some creative-types can be very disciplined about their art, more are inspired by the muse, says Silber. Put your materials out where they’re easily accessible when inspiration strikes, and work when you’re in the mood. A benefit of taking advantage of small blocks of time is that you can get into your art before your logical brain has a chance to get in the way.<br /></p><p><strong>Set goals.</strong> Know what you’re aiming for, whether it’s becoming a self-supporting artist, writing a book, or taking part in a craft show. Even if you don’t have things spelled out in such detail, Silber says you should still set goals – create a bulletin board above your desk with inspirational pictures, quotes, or photos that represent what you’re aiming for. “It gives you focus,” he says. One challenge for creative people is that everything is interesting, so it’s easy to get off-track. This way, you have some sort of criteria for judging what to let into your life. You can ask, “Is this going to help me, or is this going to sidetrack me?” he says. “It helps you push a lot of things to the side.”<br /></p><p><strong>Give yourself a break.</strong> While Silber is a big proponent of setting goals, he also believes that there is plenty you can do to move yourself towards your goal that doesn’t involve actual creating. Administrative tasks like updating your website, or housekeeping items like filing or running errands can occupy your left brain, leaving your right (creative) brain free to do what it does best – dream, imagine, create. <br /></p><p><strong>Give yourself deadlines<em>.</em></strong> One thing that keeps Silber on track is the external deadlines his publisher gives him. He knows he has to get moving at a certain point, or face the consequences. “A lot of artists need that drop-dead deadline,” he says. He suggests instead of punishing yourself, reward yourself when you complete a piece or make a self-imposed deadline. Buy a new piece of photographic equipment or a new software program – “Something that’s not just frivolous, but something that relates to your goal,” he suggests.<br /><br />For more information on Lee’s books, or to read his blog, visit him online at <a target="new" href="http://www.creativelee.com">www.creativelee.com</a>.<br /><br /></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/rss-comments-entry-1104532.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Lee Silber: Making Better Decisions</title><dc:creator>Tine</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2006 00:22:49 +0000</pubDate><link>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/2006/4/20/lee-silber-making-better-decisions.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">14674:390221:449150</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>SOUND ADVICE <br /><u>Making Better Decisions</u><br /><br />Nobody would argue if you said that life is more complicated today than ten years ago. We have more choices than ever before. The amount of channels available on your television are staggering. The volume of information just a few mouse clicks away is amazing and daunting, all at the same time. The opportunities available to a creative, enterprising person are endless. That&rsquo;s why now more than ever focus is so important. If you let your mind (and time) wander you may never find your way back to what means most to you. <br /><br />Thankfully, there is a simple solution. If you ask yourself the following question every time you are about to make a decision, you will be blown away at how you can cut through the clutter and get to the good stuff. This question can guide you to be more focused, efficient and successful. It also reduces stress because it eliminates many of the things that would otherwise overwhelm you. So, what is the question? Here it is:<br /><br /><strong>&ldquo;Does this decision bring me closer or farther away from my goals?&rdquo; </strong><br /><br />If you ask yourself this for every action you take you can focus in on the priorities and reduce the time wasters. As I have said (and many others, too) you are where you are and where you will be because of the decisions you make. To make better decisions, you need a dream, desire or direction to guide your choices. Where do you want to be in a month? Year? Five years? Now do the things that will help you get there on a daily basis and you will be moving in that direction a lot faster and easier. <br /><br />ACTION ITEM: If you would like be more focused and would like a free copy of my Ultimate Daily Planner Pad send me a self-addressed stamped envelope and I&rsquo;ll send a sample for free. Send your SASE to: LEE SILBER, 822 Redondo Court, San Diego, CA 92109.</p><p>For more information on Lee&rsquo;s books, or to read his blog, visit him online at <a target="new" href="http://www.creativelee.com/">www.creativelee.com</a>. <br /></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/rss-comments-entry-449150.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>'The Soul of an Artist' by Robert Fritz</title><dc:creator>Tine</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Mar 2006 18:08:10 +0000</pubDate><link>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/2006/3/10/the-soul-of-an-artist-by-robert-fritz.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">14674:390221:408168</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Enjoy reading this article from <a target="_blank" href="http://www.robertfritz.com">Robert Fritz</a>, author of the classic bestseller&nbsp; <a target="new" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0449903370/ref=ase_robertfritzinc/103-9918397-8238262?s=books&v=glance&n=283155&tagActionCode=robertfritzinc">The Path Of Least Resistance</a>. </p><p>You can read his article <em>&quot;The Soul of an Artist&quot;&nbsp;</em><a target="new" href="http://www.robertfritz.com/index.php?content=writingnr&newsnumber=46"> here</a>.<br />It is beautifully written and will give you the clarity and insight that indeed you are on the right path. So very insightful!<br /></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/rss-comments-entry-408168.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>'How To Be Creative Manifesto' by Hugh MacLeod</title><dc:creator>Tine</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Mar 2006 01:21:50 +0000</pubDate><link>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/2006/3/7/how-to-be-creative-manifesto-by-hugh-macleod.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">14674:390221:404635</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-left"><img alt="zzzmnjki17.jpg" src="http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/storage/zzzmnjki17.jpg" /></span>Read Hugh's inspiring and wonderful 'How To Be Creative&quot; Manifesto <a href="http://www.gapingvoid.com/Moveable_Type/archives/000876.html" target="new">here</a>!<br />There is a PDF version of it that can be found <a target="new" href="http://www.changethis.com/6.HowToBeCreative">here </a>at <a href="http://www.changethis.com" target="new">ChangeThis.com</a>!</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/rss-comments-entry-404635.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Advice from Lee Silber on: Pushing The Right Buttons</title><dc:creator>Tine</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2006 22:32:03 +0000</pubDate><link>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/2006/2/9/advice-from-lee-silber-on-pushing-the-right-buttons.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">14674:390221:380548</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>QUICK QUIZ<br /><em>What Motivates You?</em><br /><br />If nobody was around to judge your answer, which of the following motivators would you admit makes you want to do more, be more, have more and want more?<br /><br />Respect and Admiration Of Others &bull; Wanting To Prove Others Wrong &bull; To Feel Superior &bull; Approval From Your Parents &bull; To Accomplish More Than Someone You Know &bull; To Be Loved &bull; For Revenge &bull; To Be Appreciated &bull; To Be Envied &bull; To Feel Better About Yourself&nbsp; &bull; To Feel Safe And Secure &bull; Other<br /><br />Read the article (below) to see what all this means.&nbsp; <br /><br /><br />FEATURE ARTICLE<br /><strong>Pushing The Right Buttons</strong><br /><br />It&rsquo;s time for the truth to come out. When many of us are asked what motivates us, we will reply with the thing the person asking wants to hear&mdash;&ldquo;I want to make more money to provide for my family,&rdquo; or &ldquo;I want to lose weight to become healthier,&rdquo; or &ldquo;I want to be famous so I can make a difference in the world.&rdquo; Sure, these are real motivating factors, but I bet there are also other (more selfish) reasons behind a person&rsquo;s motivation to do something. You know what, there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, I want to encourage you to take a long hard look at why you want what you want, and embrace it.<br /><br />For example, some of us are highly competitive and rise to the occasion when challenged by someone else&mdash;whether they know they are in a race with us or not. If you want to be the highest paid in your field, what&rsquo;s wrong with that? If you want to own a bigger or better home than your sister, who is to say that&rsquo;s a bad thing? (As long as you can afford it.) Maybe you look at your friends and want to be the first to get an advance degree. Good for you. If you need to be in competition with coworkers, colleagues or even cousins, and that&rsquo;s what fuels your fire, I say use it to your advantage. (You never know, it may spur the other person to want to do more, too.)<br /><br />Some of us have something to prove&mdash;to ourselves or more likely, to others. If an agent told you to give it up and get a real job because you don&rsquo;t have what it takes to make it as a writer/artist/musician/performer, are you the type that wants to prove them wrong? If your friends and family laughed when you showed them your invention or clever idea, do you want to &ldquo;show them&rdquo;? If people put you down for something you can correct, will you do it and then when you finally do accomplish the &ldquo;impossible&rdquo;, make sure to show and tell them about it? Proving other people are wrong and that you can do more than they think you can is highly motivating for many. Maybe you were dumped and workout like mad to be in the best shape of your life, hoping to &ldquo;bump into&rdquo; your ex to show them the new you. Hey, it&rsquo;s better than doing nothing and being depressed.<br /><br />They say you either rebel against your parents or you become them. There is something else some of us want when it comes to our parents&mdash;we want their approval. Having a parent say they are proud of your accomplishments can be the driving force behind a lot of people&rsquo;s need to succeed. You will hear that you should live your life for yourself and not worry so much what others think, but you can&rsquo;t control what you feel. Some of people want to either eclipse their parents success, or have them say they are wonderful. If this desire to make your parents proud pushes you to past your own idea of what&rsquo;s possible, I say good.<br /><br />Some of us will continue to rise up to reach new heights in our lives in an effort to gain the respect of our peers. They say you need to earn respect, and that&rsquo;s what drives a lot of us to want to win awards, create great works, climb the corporate ladder and strive for fame and fortune. Wanting others look up to you can be the ticket to tapping your talents and getting outside of your comfort zone to promote your ability. The feeling that you are admired and respected by others can be the missing ingredient to getting what you want.<br /><br />Most of us need to be loved&mdash;or at least liked. We do all kinds of things we never would if there wasn&rsquo;t a reward at the end as powerful as love. Think about it, what would you do for love? Exactly, almost anything. Admitting this is not easy. We know that people should love/like us for who we are, and they will. Yet, we may believe that we will attract more and better people if we are somehow better in some way or at some thing. If this need to be loved pushes you to make (needed) improvements in your life, then you have already won. For example, if a performer seeks the love of others through applause or positive reviews, and they rehearse like never before to get it, is that such a bad thing? If you want people to fall in love with your works and this pushes you to do more market research to figure out what clients want, where&rsquo;s the harm in that?<br /><br />There are other reasons why people push themselves to be the best they can be and I say as long as it doesn&rsquo;t damage others and is ethical, use whatever works when it comes to motivating yourself. Maybe you don&rsquo;t tell others the true reason behind your newfound passion to pursue something, your inner motivation is for you and you alone. I just want you to look at your true feelings and embrace them. You are not a bad person if your desire to help others comes after wanting to be recognized for your talents. This makes you an honest person, actually. Yes, you should give back but if that doesn&rsquo;t do it for you, then go with whatever works to get you where you want to be.&nbsp; <br /><br />I anticipate a lot of you may disagree with my position on finding the fuel to ignite your passion, and that&rsquo;s okay. In my experience, the missing piece in motivating myself (and others) was being true to what really mattered to me. It&rsquo;s probably not popular to admit that what you really want is not exactly based or backed by altruistic reasons and what really gets you going is something others may see as selfish. I&rsquo;m willing to put it in writing (and take the heat) and hope that someone reading this finally finds the key to motivating themselves using whatever means most to THEM. Unless you are Mother Theresa or a martyr, you may want good things to happen to you just because. You know what, you deserve it. <br /><br />ACTION ITEM: Pick a goal and come up with five (real) reasons why you want it without worry what others would think if they knew. Ask yourself, &ldquo;How would I feel if I had this or done that and what is my real motivation for wanting this goal?&rdquo; <br /><br />&mdash;By Lee Silber <br /></p><p>Visit his site at:<a href="http://www.creativelee.com/" target="new"> http://www.creativelee.com</a><br /> Email to: leesilber@earthlink.net&nbsp; </p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/rss-comments-entry-380548.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Excellent Essays On:</title><dc:creator>Tine</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2006 23:14:15 +0000</pubDate><link>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/2006/2/1/excellent-essays-on.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">14674:390221:372258</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>:: <a target="new" href="http://www.paulgraham.com/love.html">How To Do What You Love</a> by <em>Paul Graham</em>. </p><p>:: <a target="new" href="http://www.paulgraham.com/procrastination.html">Good And Bad Procrastination</a> by <em>Paul Graham</em>. </p><p> </p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/rss-comments-entry-372258.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Advice from Lee Silber on how to organize your studio better!</title><dc:creator>Tine</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2005 20:25:34 +0000</pubDate><link>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/2005/12/3/advice-from-lee-silber-on-how-to-organize-your-studio-better.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">14674:390221:318116</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>I meet some of the smartest people who have read all the right books, have a good eduction and bought all the best organizing tools but can&rsquo;t seem to pull it all together. The trick is to turn what you know into what you will DO. This book is loaded with proven organizing ideas that work&mdash;if you work them. You have to take this knowledge and apply it to the problem of getting organized. I like to say that reading my books can change your life, but I want to amend that statement. Taking the concepts contained on these pages and applying them brings about true change.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;<br />  <br /> I know this works because it works for me, and I am just like you. I&rsquo;m a creative, right-brain, packrat (my wife would also like to add perfectionist, procrastinator and easily distracted) who has managed to get and stay organized without losing my creativity, personality or spontaneity. If you dropped by my house unannounced on any given day you would find what you would expect from someone who wrote a book about organizing&mdash;a showplace where everything shared in this book is put into practice. Everyone that comes to visit me says the same thing, &ldquo;You are sooooooooo organized.&rdquo; <br />  <br /> It wasn&rsquo;t always this way. Years ago my place was a cluttered, chaotic, disorganized mess. That&rsquo;s right, I was not always so together. Now I am the poster boy for organizing. How did this transition take place? By applying the same principles I share in this book along with a little self-control and a lot of creativity. I started small and eventually every single area of my home and office was organized. There is no way I could have written this book or any of the ten others if I couldn&rsquo;t stay organized. It would be impossible to live in my beach house with its limited storage if I didn&rsquo;t try and apply everything I set forth in these pages. I doubt I would be able to entertain as often as I do if things were as messy as they once were. I certainly couldn&rsquo;t have reached any of the financial and personal goals I have while living in complete chaos. I have lived a disorganized life and an organized one and there is no comparison&mdash;being able to find things, not being embarrassed when others come to visit, and having a home and office that runs smoothly is best. I get more done in half the time and I am able to spend my time and energy on more important things, because getting and STAYING organized is better than being disorganized. If I can do it, so can you. If you set up an organizing strategy and structure that makes sense and works for you, there is no reason you can&rsquo;t continue to be an organized person for the rest of your life. It will be one less thing to worry about and many more good things will happen to you as a result. It&rsquo;s also habit forming. (Something right-brainers know a little about.)</p><p><u>How To Control Clutter Throughout The Year</u><br /> <em>&ldquo;I don&rsquo;t love you because you&rsquo;re organized. I love you in spite of that.&rdquo; &mdash;Chandler Bing to Monica Gellar on Friends</em><br /> <br /> It&rsquo;s really not &ldquo;get organized&rdquo;, it&rsquo;s &ldquo;stay organized&rdquo;. One way to stay organized is to put Post-it Notes wherever you leave a mess and remind yourself what your goals are or scold yourself for going back to your old ways. Put notes in your calendar as reminders to stay organized. You have to have a new mindset. You know what being disorganized is like. We both know there is a problem or you wouldn&rsquo;t have bought this book. This isn&rsquo;t for my good, this is for yours. You already have the book. The solution is for you to make some lasting changes. Keeping a place organized is a thankless task, but worth the effort. If you value yourself you will want to do it and keep things that way. Just because you are organized doesn&rsquo;t mean you can rest on your laurels. You have got to keep it up. Reaching a goal can be a real letdown but you have to set new goals. Here are some suggestions to keep you on track.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Think before you buy.</strong> Start today by promising to not allow any new clutter into your life until you get a handle on what you have. The new you thinks about everything that comes into your life and wonders whether it is working for you or against you and doesn&rsquo;t allow things in that don&rsquo;t belong or help you reach your goals. Will this purchase make my life easier? Better? For example, when you buy bedding, is this complicated comforter and the ten pillows that go with it worth the time it will take to make the bed every morning? Pause and reflect before buying something or agreeing to do something that could clog up your life with clutter. You have a system in place so that you know what goes and what stays and where it goes. You have divided your home and office into zones with most often used items easy to get to and stored near where they are needed. You have a junk drawer but before you fill it up you take the time to sort through and thin it from time to time.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Believe and achieve.</strong> Say, &ldquo;I am organized.&rdquo; This can&rsquo;t just be a phase. Write it down over and over again. Put it on your keychain. Turn it into a screensaver. Act as if you ARE&nbsp; an organized person even if you have to pretend and cast yourself in that role. Your home is the set. You can have a cast of characters to help out. You write the script complete with a happy ending.Schedule an opening night to show off the new organized you. That&rsquo;s commitment.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Set aside some time for organizing tasks.</strong> According to a University of Maryland study, 85 percent of us feel rushed some or all of the time. Duh. You will always be too busy to get organized and it&rsquo;s even harder to find the time to stay that way. It doesn&rsquo;t take that much time to keep up your organized ways. You can sift through your wallet in a minute or two. It takes five minutes at most to go through a pile of publications and get rid of your oldest ones. You&rsquo;d be surprised at how many pesky little projects you can clear off your to-do-list in a few minutes a day. You can probably do a desk drawer in fifteen to thirty minutes. In one hour (with no distractions) you can conquer all kinds of clutter. Make the time to tackle organizing tasks like paying bills, putting photos in albums, repairs. Many of us go through seasons or cycles where we are extremely busy and then there are the down times. Granted, some never get a break. It is during the off-season that you can conquer clutter and finally catch up on organizing projects, so do a little every day. Set a timer for ten minutes and see how many tasks you can accomplish and how many things you can put away. </p><p><br /> <strong>&bull; Persistence pays off.</strong> &ldquo;Persistence trumps talent and looks every time,&rdquo; says Aaron Brown. It will seem impossible that you will ever have everything in its proper place&nbsp; but by breaking down areas that need attention, you will find it is possible. Chip away and take on one area at a time. Getting one drawer of your desk in order does make a difference. Making a dent is a confidence builder. Take it one pile at a time. There will be peaks and valleys on your way to becoming organized. Don&rsquo;t give up if you get discouraged and start sliding down the hill. Pull yourself up and stay with it even if you suffer a setback. When you feel overwhelmed, take a day off and leave the endless chores alone and go have some fun.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Do something, anything.</strong> Build some momentum. Once one area is organized you will feel so empowered and you&rsquo;ll want to continue. Take out the big stuff first (binders, catalogs, books) so your piles get smaller sooner. Do the task you find the most appealing first. By beginning with the easiest or most exciting thing you should see some success and start to get in the swing of things. Believe it or not, once you start you may not want to stop.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Find the deeper meaning.</strong> &ldquo;All motivation is self-motivation. Your family, your boss or your co-workers can try to get your engine going, but until you decide what to accomplish, nothing will happen,&rdquo; says Seth Godin. Post the reasons why you want to stay organized so that when you are tempted to quit you&rsquo;ll stick with it. Jim Carrey used affirmations before his big breakthrough. He was broke and struggling but he still told himself, &ldquo;I am one of the top five actors in Hollywood. Every director wants to work with me.&rdquo; Then he wrote himself a check inscribed, &ldquo;For acting services rendered, $10 million.&rdquo; He credits much of his success to affirmations and the mindset they can create. Make up your own that includes the words, &ldquo;I am an organized person.&rdquo;&nbsp; &nbsp; <br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Rome wasn&rsquo;t built in a day.</strong> Getting organized will take time. Don&rsquo;t give up if you don&rsquo;t get everything the way you want it right away. It&rsquo;s a lot like a diet. It&rsquo;s a lifestyle that you have to maintain for a lifetime. You make changes with the times and what&rsquo;s going on in your life. You find a system that works for you and stick with it. You may fall off the wagon but don&rsquo;t throw in the towel. You may feel like you are losing control and in order to get a handle on things you may need to get some help to get things back in order and flowing. Murphy&rsquo;s Law will always rear its ugly head and throw a wrench into your organizing wheel, so set realistic goals. &nbsp;<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Take it one day at a time.</strong> Many of us will do what I call Olympic organizing. Once every few years we decide to get organized and we give it our best shot, but in between things tend to slide. My personal preference is to do a little organizing every day. I use found time to straighten up, put things away, shuffle my papers and take care of pesky little tasks. I find that I work better in short bursts anyway, and I prefer to slip in organizing between more enjoyable things. When I am writing and need a break, instead of plopping down in front of the TV, I will make copies, put papers away and take care of a multitude of mundane left-brain tasks. If you don&rsquo;t have a minute to spare then you have to set aside some time to get to your organizing tasks. You can&rsquo;t function at full speed if you are being slowed down by clutter and disorganization. A little organizing a day actually saves time later and prevents tiny tasks from turning into monsters. Actress Lucy Lawless says, &ldquo;I can be &lsquo;on&rsquo; for about two hours, then I have to do something real&mdash;like cleaning the grouting.&rdquo;<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Look for ways to mix it up.</strong> Create new ways to do those same old tasks like paying bills, answering e-mail, updating your mailing list, cleaning the house or doing the dishes. Walk around your house with Duct Tape on your feet, sticky side out, and pick up all those little loose items. Then you can sort&nbsp; them and throw away what&rsquo;s not worth saving.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; It&rsquo;s a new mindset.</strong> When you are faced with new challenges to staying organized, look for solutions instead of giving up or giving in. Keep your eye on the goal and what seems like a setback may not be a cause for concern or time to cave in. A state of effortless action is when you and the task become one. Find the tasks that give you that state of absorption that creates flow. One woman made her computer password at work &ldquo;Organized&rdquo; to make sure she thought about it throughout the day.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Celebrate your organizing successes.</strong> For one week make a list of all the small successes you&rsquo;ve had each day. Realizing this will motivate you to do more and keep you motivated. Put a jar on your desk and every time you choose organizing and maintenance over chaos and clutter, put a few bucks as an &ldquo;atta boy&rdquo; or &ldquo;good girl&rdquo; reward. When you get to $100 blow it on something fun and frivolous for yourself. Get rid of ten worn, unflattering tops and replace them with one nice new one.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Anything is more interesting than what you are doing now. </strong>Use organizing as a break from boring work or when you have a mind block. When I am blocked or bored, I will switch from writer to landscaper, janitor, secretary or whatever hat needs to be worn as long as it doesn&rsquo;t involve working on a book&mdash;this book. The truth is, we can&rsquo;t create all day long or we&rsquo;ll burn out. It&rsquo;s also true that you can&rsquo;t create in a vacuum and you need outside experience to trigger ideas. I also believe that to get unstuck you can&rsquo;t force. The best thing to do is to get away from the problem and do something that allows your subconscious mind to work on coming up with a solution while you occupy your critical left-brain. It may be while I am going through a pile of papers or catching up on my reading that I&rsquo;ll get the breakthrough I&rsquo;ve been waiting for. What am I getting at? When you need a break, take it, but instead of watching another rerun of Murder She Wrote, clean out a drawer or catch up on some tedious tasks.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Make it a habit.</strong> Believe it or not, organizing can become habit forming. Start the day off right by beginning with a simple but important task that you can complete in a few minutes. It will give you a positive push by accomplishing something of importance that will propel you through the day. What if you were to begin or end each day by getting rid of one piece of clutter? Wow, in a week you would have lightened your load by seven items. If you did one more thing a day to get and stay organized you&rsquo;d be a lot better off by the end of the week, month and year. Get up early or arrive to work when nobody is there to bother you and organize. Do it at the end of the day to end on a high note. Ever notice how your local evening news ends the broadcast with a nice animal story so that it ends with something positive? It&rsquo;s always better to come in the next day to a somewhat organized space. Some people may prefer to stay up late and do it. Frank Zappa worked nights while his wife, Gail, did the day shift since Zappa didn&rsquo;t feel he could get anything done during the day. Some people get their second wind at night. A chore a day (or night) keeps the weekend work away.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Redecorate as part of the organizing process.</strong> One couple featured on an episode of Trading Spaces was so enthralled with the transformation of their bedroom that they didn&rsquo;t even sleep in it for fear of messing it up. Of course they returned to their room, but now they say they will not leave clothes lying around because the room has to remain spotless. I think this is true of a lot of us.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Do it as you see it.</strong> Some of the rules that apply to staying on top your organizing tasks include the rule that if you pass something on the ground, pick it up and put it away. In fact, don&rsquo;t put something down unless you put it away. Finish what you start so that a lot of loose ends don&rsquo;t clog up every surface and finished things can be stored.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Make organizing easier.</strong> When my wife wraps gifts she has a system that includes all the needed supplies and a trash bag so that she can clean up as she goes. &nbsp;<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Routines are not as stifling as you may think.</strong> In fact, they can free up your creativity. It&rsquo;s important for people who tend to take each day as it comes and get easily distracted to have some structure. The key is to set up a routine that is realistic and then stick to it. Put it on your calendar until you memorize it&mdash;a routine that will allow you to know what has to be done in order to stay on top of ongoing organizing. Pick a desk day to deal with paperwork, answer fan mail, put together proposals and pay bills. Otherwise, things that must get done tend to pile up. Before you celebrate the weekend, transfer all those scraps and sticky notes onto one master list. Catch up on calls. Process the mail.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Break big tasks down.</strong> Organizing the entire garage in one try is too much, but if you work on it for twenty minutes a day you can make a difference. Our attention span is probably about thirty minutes but if we really focus we can work wonders in one hour. For big jobs break them down into &ldquo;sitcom&rdquo; segments (thirty-minute increments) so that it&rsquo;s not too long but long enough for you to make a difference. You can clean out the fridge in half an hour and have time left over to make a sandwich. Maybe you can use the thirty minutes just to assess what needs to be done and take one tiny step to getting started. You can always sneak in thirty minutes of maintenance between the bigger tasks.<br /> <br /> <strong>&bull; Schedule big organizing projects.</strong> Make a date with yourself to get rid of clutter. Until you have a deadline it&rsquo;s unlikely you&rsquo;ll do it. Tie it in with a move, holiday, tax time, your birthday, the rainy season or when you paint your home. Whatever works. Sometimes it&rsquo;s a life-changing time of your life that gets you to organize. A child goes off to college, you get married or divorced, have a baby, move or start a business. Schedule tough tasks when you know you&rsquo;ll have the energy. </p><p><br /> <strong>&bull; Do more than one thing at a time.</strong> Multitasking helps you handle all the day-to-day organizing tasks that have to be done daily. In today&rsquo;s fast world it won&rsquo;t work to just do one thing at a time anymore or you&rsquo;ll fall behind. If you clean the shower while showering or iron a weeks worth of clothes while watching your favorite show or wash the dishes while waiting for the water to boil, you&rsquo;ll stay a step ahead of the clutter waiting to collect. Keep simple projects by the phone or near the TV to do a little at a time.<br /> <br /> Excerpted from ORGANIZING FROM THE RIGHT SIDE OF THE BRAIN by Lee Silber.<br /> To order it from 'Amazon' simply click on the image below:<br /> </p><p><span class="full-image-float-none"><a target="new" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312318162/qid=1133638810/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/104-8020446-0817560?s=books&v=glance&n=283155"><img alt="Organizing_cover_burst.jpg" src="http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/storage/Organizing_cover_burst.jpg" /></a></span>&nbsp;</p> <h2><strong>Lee Silber</strong></h2> <p>Creative Lee Speaking<br /> Creative Solutions for Every Kind of Business Problem<br /> <br /> <a href="http://www.creativelee.com" target="new">http://www.creativelee.com</a><br /> Email to: leesilber@earthlink.net&nbsp; </p> <p>....................................................................................................................................................................................&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://tinesparkles.squarespace.com/sf-articles-advice/rss-comments-entry-318116.xml</wfw:commentRss></item></channel></rss>